This morning, Eddie and I woke up at 08:00 to go and play badminton with Matt, Katie, Sky and Riki. We only had the court for an hour, but we had some fun games and I really enjoyed it, having not played badminton since year 11.
Eddie and I went home after badminton and got showered and ready for a meal with some other family members. We went to a restaurant in a five-star hotel, round the corner from where the family live. When we arrived, I was amazed at how many people that were sat around the table waiting for us! I thought I was only meeting the grandparents, but actually there was Eddies mum’s brother, his child and wife, her brother and his girlfriend, and two sets of grandparents. Only Eddie’s uncle could speak a little English so I sat with him and he helped me communicate with everyone, as did Eddie. I felt truly privileged to meet everybody and Eddie’s granddad told me how proud and honoured everybody was to meet me. After the meal, the men were smoking expensive cigarettes, whilst everyone else ate some deserts. I was surprised by how much my preconceptions about family meals, actually differed in reality; although there were many things that I observed to be customary around the dinner table. For example, as a guest, I was offered to try everything as it was brought to the table, before anyone else. In addition, the “Maciel” tradition of almost forcing more food upon everybody seems to be a custom that is shared by the Chinese. After the meal, we took some photos in the lobby of the hotel before saying our goodbyes to everybody and heading off back home.
After a few hours back home, Eddie took me back to the hotel in a taxi. I said thank you and goodbye to Eddie’s parents, however I told them I will go and see them for some tea maybe on Wednesday. I checked into a different room than the one before and quickly got ready for the evenings activity- FOOTBALL!! We booked 10 tickets to go and see Shanghai Shenhua play against Dalian FC. Along with Eddie, Aman, Seun, Imtiyaz, Asher, Owen, Matt, Jess and Lily we had one of the best times since we have been here. A few of us bought some shirts from the ground and we found our seats- 8 rows from the front, on the half way line. The stadium was relatively small, although it appears to be quite big from the outside, and the attendance was only around 8,000, however that didn’t matter because the atmosphere was electric. Behind both goals were the die-hard season ticket holders, where most of the singing and chanting came from, and in the top tier of our stand, on the right, were the thuggish looking away fans who looked like they had just walked off the set of Green Street. The standard of the football probably compares to our League 2 or below, with a slower tempo and route one football, however it didn’t matter because we were entertained by both the crowd and the occasional break, which should have produced a goal, but obviously didn’t! Aman and I, wearing our Shanghai shirts, didn’t take long before we were joining in with the chants and singing along to songs, but with the Man Utd lyrics, rather than the Mandarin version! The game finished up at 1-1, but we weren’t really bothered because we left feeling satisfied and well entertained. There was a scuffle at the end, following a few aggressive tackles during the game, which led to a huge roar from all of the fans. My only disappointment was the treatment of the referee, even over here! Being a ref myself, I can empathise with them when they are abused. At one point during the game, the manager of Dalian ran onto the pitch and squared up to the ref because he had given a decision against his team! The manager wasn’t sent to the stands like he would have done, were he in most European countries. Moreover, as the game progressed, there was a lot more trouble arising in the away stand; bottles, cans and coins were being thrown at spectators and players and there was a sense of the hooliganism that swept through England in the 80’s. I left the ground buzzing from the incredible atmosphere and Aman and I had almost lost our voices!
When we got home, Aman and I went out on was supposed to be a lads only night, but after one club we went and joined the others.
Our final few days begin tomorrow and I am under a lot of stress to complete my final project, but hopefully a few late nights should be enough to cram in all the editing! Until tomorrow, Zai Jian
Highlight of the day- Singing and chanting at the football match! SHENHUA!!