Fellows

Host Family Fun

clock August 17, 2010 19:15 by author Jochebed Fening

Firstly... I apologise for my lack of blogs.

A lot has happened since my last blog post. We left Rio shortly after I wrote that blog and travelled to São Paulo - a very different Brazilian environment. The quicker pace of activity in São Paulo was evident as soon as we got into Congonhas Airport (the airport in São Paulo). I think the majority, if not all, of the fellows were sad to leave the relaxed atmosphere of Rio but at the same time the change let me know that we were moving on and that we definitely had many more things in Brazil to experience.

Meeting my host family was one of the most daunting things I've ever had to do... honestly. I was so nervous... about so many things: whether they would like me, whether we would be able to communicate properly, where I would be staying, what the school would be like... but mostly whether they would like me.

Looking back now, I can say that the nerves were in vain because I couldn't have had a better experience. They made me feel like one of their own and I learnt so much from them. On the first weekend they took me to this little market town in São Paulo called Embu and it was beautiful. There were stalls and shops filled with Brazillian handcrafts of all kinds from jewellry to furniture and it was lovely to walk around - I did a lot of "oooo's" and "ahhhh's." Throughout the week I got up early and went to school with my host sister Maria - Julia who is 16 and in the evenings we had the chance to get to know each other and by the end of the 2 weeks I felt very attached to them - even, (shamefully), sharing a couple of tears when it came to goodbyes.

During my time there my host family took me to two restaurants and I got the chance to try even more food... which I loved. We went to a Japanese restaurant and a steak house and both times I came out adament that I would never eat again because I was so full. The Japanese food was amazing but the steak house was particularly memorable. There, I had the chance to use a bit of portugese and ordered a pasta dish which I was proud of and if I was paid based on the amount of times I said "não obrigada (no thank you)," to the waiters who brought ridiculous amounts of meat to the table,  I know I would be a very rich lady. I also tried a chicken heart which was... sausage like... and my host family practically had to force-feed me to get me to try it and having tasted it, I think the one time is definitely enough.

Talking to the host family proved difficult initially because of the language barrier. Don't get me wrong, their english was good, despite their lack of confidence but a Brazillian accent can be difficult to understand sometimes, as I'm sure my own London accent was to them. By the 2nd week however, I could pretty much determine their sentences before they finished them which made conversation a lot easier as they didn't have to struggle to mentally translate portugese words into english. Nonetheless, I felt guilty at times. I didn't have much of a chance to learn more portugese and this was because they did their best to speak english as much as possible to make me feel comfortable. I just thought that being in Brazil, I should do what the Brazillians do... speak portugese.

The 2nd phase of the trip has given me a chance to reflect upon language and the people that I had met so far and I felt really inspired by the drive to learn more languages. My host, (of which there were 3 girls and their lovely mother), all spoke portugese and a good level of english, except my youngest host sister who knew the very basics. My host sister Maria - Julia also knew  basic spanish and had private english lessons as well as a school english classes. I love how dedicated she was to learning english and she recognised the barriers that she would break by doing so. I reflected on the fact that the erosion of language barriers has aided considerably in globalisation and how my host sister recognised that by knowing english she would benefit in the long-run. After pondering on that I started to make comparisons to the UK and I personally feel that the British students aren't encouraged enough to learn languages and with predictions that say that Portuguese will soon become one of the most important languages in the world, maybe French to a basic gcse level isn't enough for the future generations of the UK to interact in an integrated world.

Being at Collegio São Luis however was a true learning experience. I am truly grateful for the British education system. I took the opportunity to sit in some of the classes and observe the lessons and I guess the consensus on the atmosphere of the lessons there was very subjective. Some of the fellows felt that the lessons were pretty similar to that of our own. Others disagreed and argued that Brazillian students didn't have much respect for the teachers and didn't regard education too highly.

In my opinion, whilst I could definitely see similarities in the classroom to my own educational experience, I did feel that the students at São Luis in the morning were a lot more relaxed than I would have ever been allowed to be in my own school. Maybe this slight disappointment was due to us fellows expecting a hardworking environment. However, I was only able to witness morning students as my host went to school in the morning. I heard that the evening students had a very different experience and hopefully future fellows will be able to experience both sides.

Having now entered university finally I'm grateful for our university admissions system despite the stress it causes. Brazilians have a very different experience. Entering university in Brazil appeared to be rather traumatic to me, the stress put onto one test is immense and I met several Brazilians who took out a year just to study for that particular exam; medicine hopefuls who had been studying for 5 years and had failed 5 university exams because that was the route they had chosen. In the UK, students are presented with other options to get employment or make careers for themselves whereas Brazil, to put bluntly, offers university or poverty. Of course situations are never that black and white but I hope that in the near future, the Brazilian government looks into transforming their education system. After having conversations with the fellows and watching their presentations, one of the messages that stuck in my mind was: "education is development," with this I do agree.



Eu amo o Brasil =)

clock July 30, 2010 19:22 by author Jochebed Fening

So, I think it was about time I blogged again. My time so far has been unbelievably amazing. I apologise for not blogging enough, there is very rarely any time to do so and when there is time, my hotel bed unfortunately is more inviting.

I can't believe that it's been two weeks and phase 1 of our trip is pretty much over. Already I can say that I am not the same person that stepped on the TAM plane to Rio on the 16th of July. I've made lifelong friends and experienced a culture that has made me think... as I knew it would.

These 2 weeks have pretty much turned into one big blur but there are a few things that have stuck in my mind.

  1. Brazil's sense of identity - their art and culture defines them.
  2. The people in Rio are very very friendly - you can't help but be happy. Happiness is most definitely contagious. They will go out of your way to help you - which is something that you just don't find in th UK. I've met some lovely people here in Rio, from my portugese teachers to random people in restaurants and bars. A couple of days ago, I wasn't feeling too well, my voice pretty much went and I felt a pang of homesickness. That feeling was short-lived because of how nice everyone was to me: some of the fellows bought me food, our portugese teacher bought me sweets for my throat and so many people showed concern that by the end of the day I was back to normal; their care was my medicine, (quite a cheesy line eh).
  3. Income disparities. Looking over the landscapes you can easily distinguish the richer areas from the favelas and poorer communities. British people should be grateful for the help that is given as I don't think that we can ever truly hit rock bottom - the government will be there to pick us up.
  4. Brazilians recognise their country needs - organisations fill in the gaps the government leaves. We had the opportunity to visit Afro Reggae and and Bola Pra Frente - both organisations that provide opportunities for kids and people in "poor" communities. These particular visits touched my heart in a major way.

But this a quick note, the next blog will be more detailed and hopefully will have pictures.

Chow =) x



Departure

clock July 16, 2010 14:39 by author Jochebed Fening

Yay! So the day has finally arrived.

I've said my goodbyes, packed my life (clothes) into 3 suitcases, yes 3 (and a handbag), and now I'm ready.

I'm going to Brazil and I realise that this trip will change a lot of things for me...

But drama and technicalities aside, I'm going to try my best to make the most of this trip and to share my experiences with you all.

I hope this is the first of many blog entries. =)

 

 



Calendar

<<  September 2010  >>
MoTuWeThFrSaSu
303112345
6789101112
13141516171819
20212223242526
27282930123
45678910

View posts in large calendar

Tag cloud

RecentPosts

Sign in