Well, due to tiredness, I have left blogging to this morning before breakfast. Not sure how far I'll get. Yesterday we started the day, experiencing the infamous monsoon rains. At first, I thought ok- no worse than England. However, it progressively got worse and I now understand just how wet monsoon rains are!
'Laughter is Internal Jogging.'- It was then off to our first session of laughter yoga! Those of you who know me will realise that this was ideal for me! However, it became clear before we had begun, just when we were sitting around in a circle, that we didn't need luaghter yoga! In fact we probably laughed more beforehand than during it (especially when people watched my poor atempts at a teddy bear roll.) The session involved two Indian men trying to explain why laughter was so good for you and exercises to force ourselves to laugh. To be honest it was slightly strange. Most people were laughing but I can think of three reasons why I was,: watching everyone else was hilarious, I laugh at most things and I sort of forced myself to. We then ventured off to our next destination- A disabled children's rehabilitation centre. The journey was fun, trying to take pictures of the monsoon rains (which I'll upload at a later date.)
As soon as we arrived, I felt so amazingly happy. We were welcomed by so many children smiling, waving and wanting to shake our hands. It was such a fantastic atmosphere. The children then performed for us. It was a wondeful, colourful and happy performance of both disabled and non- disabled children. Towards the end, they all came to take us ont o the stage to join thema nd I couldn't have wiped the smile of my face if I tried.
The centre itself is really special. It was set up in 1981 with 30 students. It now has 450 students- 60% disabled, 40% non-disabled. Just the integration aspect of it alone is something which we could learn from in the UK. But it's definitely not just a school. It has a medical centre (not just with physiotherapy facilities, but even an operation theatre!), a centre to train teachers to work with children with disabilities, vocational training courses (including crafts, which we bought some of and computer repairing) and a centre which makes prosthetic limbs.
'Personality means person in reality.' We were lucky enough to look around the whole centre and everyone was happy- both fellows and children. The centre is working towards the development of personalities and they explained why through the quote above. For me, it was amazing seeing the change in other fellows. To be honest, previously when we've talked about our aspirations, I've felt intimidated when many of the fellows tell me what they're doing at Uni and what they hope to become in the future- business people, politicians etc. When I've replied saying I think I want to work with disabled children, although I hate feeling this way as I could think of nothing more fulfilling, I feel average. However, now I think and I hope that the other fellows do understand at least to a certain extent what I feel. The change is beginning to happen...
'The best investment is the investment in people.' I saw so many amazing things at this centre. Having worked with disabled children previously, I had begun to think that I was prepared to deal with this outing and it wouldn't affect me in the way it affected other people. However, I now realise I was being completely naive and yesterday, I felt exactly the same as I did in my very first experience of working with disabled children. One of the most inspiring things I saw, and it was truley inspiring, was when we were visiting the visually impaired classroom. We were in the way but most of the students made their way to their seats fine. However, one really young boy was confused and couldn't find his seat. He began to cry, which really made me want to cry but then another blind boy stood up and made his way to the other boy and guided him to his seat. I was so touched and amazed. Even though I know I'll see so many amazing things during 6 weeks in india, I know not many things will beat that.
Unfortunately, I'm aware that a centre like this isn't your average Indian special school. It is really quite unique and although other facilities do exist for disabled people, there is a general feeling of pity towards people with disabilities. I hate this. But, this centre is one to be valued and praised and hopefully the country will go in this direction too.
Although I had had such an amazing morning,t he middle of my day was slightly worse. We went on a heritage walk. This, we had been told was a walk through a bustee. It certainly wasn't what i expected. Having studied big, recent bustees, such as Dharavi in Mumbai, I was a bit shocked by this one. It was extremely well established- it had been there since Independence. Essentially it was just really old housing. There is no denying the fact that the conditions were horrible- the smell of sick and excretion was disgusting and it was so so muddy. But if that was the case here, I dread tot hink what Dharavi is like.
What shocked me the most wasn't the conditions, but how we were treated. It was a muslim area and I felt constantly uncomfortable as every time we stopped, we'd become gradually surrounded by angry looking Muslim men. At first, I was sympathetic because we were intruders, using their poor conditions as tourism. but then at the end I was told these Heritage Walks happened regualrly, and they were used to westerners walking through their streets. I then felt angry because we truley had been treated terribly by these men.
In the evening, we had the option of going to Akshadham Temple. Only 10 of us actually went but we were so glad we did. The architecture is simply amazing. We then found out that it was only built 5 years ago so we were truley shocked! The detail was so intricate and it was set in such beautiful grounds. It was extremely interesting to visit a Hindu Temple, I felt I was finally getting a small look into the role religion plays in Indian culture. We decided to stay for a 'singing fountain' show. We watched a fountain played to beautiful coloured lights and a story with the stunning back drop of the temple. A wonderful evening, I really wish I could have captured that moment.
I'm afraid it's breakfast time- more to follow!